If you go out to a very large Graveyard and all is at peace you can look at the dates on the individual graves. Each one has a date of birth and date of death and an individual existence in the interim. His birth is a set fact in time and so is his death. It could have been no other way. Yet they were all individuals who could have led no other life and who could have come to no other end. Each one had separate life and destiny which was fulfilled in his passing. And so they stand; hundreds of individual graves which are token of the eternal cycle of life and death over which we have little or no control. Fate has the last say and we all fade away in eternal rest.