Temple or a tramp

How do you look at your near 16 year old daughter and help her to not feel worthless or to not be intimidated by the desire of the just turned 15 year old boy that is always trying 'get some' or 'hook up' ???? 

while she is perplexed of her place and if she's to be a temple or a tramp -  you aim to help her know - and - not - just - feel -that she's more; all this defusing and she can't hear your words because she is wishing her ears weren't consumed by the ringing of her father and his "buddies".... 

It's a muffled screeching wave of audio - muted by former leads

The sounds resound in her teenage ears as she hears her dad ask her 14 year old brother about the girl he likes and she hears them chuckle and banter and check to see if he has "gotten lucky" ...??? has he managed to get up her shirt and touch a tit?!?" 

We sit - being -  "just a girl..." and tomorrow she will be more confused and still displaced but her response to that 15 year old boy will have a different reaction... a reaction of disillusioned confidences that she doesn't understand ...that 15 year old boy thats another mans son will be following his fathers same lead... 

... Its clear now though to my 16 year old daughter just what she heard from our house yesterday.... they were "just being guys" in the other room...

Her daddy said it's ok... 

She thinks she must be a temple and not a tramp she thinks - shes sure she knows - she's confident, she thinks 

Still Mom sits in hind-sites grip looking for A way to know;

how does she look at her 16 year old daughter and help her to not feel worthless or to not be intimidated by the desire of the just turned 15 year old boy that is always trying 'get some'??? after her dad just called her a tramp and tells them both he didn't raise a whore - he's angry that she let the 15 year old boy touch her tit!!! A story which he heard from her 14 year old brother while he giggled and bantered just being a guy with his dad and telling him about the chicks ass he smacked while she got off the bus today... 

All she wanted to be was a temple 
But daddy's train their boys to want tramps

SP