Which is the hardest to lose? A life lived or one not even let loose?

Which is the hardest to lose? A life lived or one not even let loose?

It's happened in my past.
That flashing image of your bundle of joy to come.
For your dreams to turn rotten,
And to darkness they succumb.
For right before your eyes,
Your future plans crumble.
Reduced to a mere crumb.
Your body begins to tremble,
Before you feel numb.
Whilst your heart breaks into two,
Just like your loved one.
It's so harsh in life,
When you realise,
your child will never see,
The daylights sun.
To think that you'll neither have them Squeezing your finger or thumb.
No memories of them growing up.
No chance to be a dad or mum!

Ectopic pregnancies,
Surely have to be one of life's worst atrocities?
Ripping you limb from limb.
Taking life from your child within.
No matter,
Even if you're 40 weeks in.
It could happen at anytime.
So look after one and other and remember,
Losing a child,
Isn't committing a sin.
Unfortunately in life,
It's one hell of a harsh thing.
Yet we have to carry ourselves somehow through.
In memory of your lost child,
In everything you do.

Everyone is affected differently though.
Some would rather not tell.
Where others may prefer to show.
Although talking is important,
Time's a healer,
Give it a go.
Everything is all mixed up when in and around the moment.
But have solace in the fact,
Although not fast,
Those memories burn slow.
Leaving it easier for you to carry on.
When you're ready,
For your next tomorrow.
Hopefully in the future again,
Your loved ones cheeks,
Will begin to glow!
If not,
Then just be thankful for your own life. focus on how to continue on,
Even after this hellish type strife!