You are what you say you are

When the laughter stops the reality settles in,                                                                                                                                          That your foes wasn't your foes and your friends wasn't your friends,                                                                                         That you confuse love with infatuation and the whole relationship was a scheme,                                                                       And that growing up is learning to cope and that life isn't always what it seems,                                                                                          That knowledge is the key, but at the same time it is a curse,                                                                                                                      And that your best instinct is always your first,                                                                                                                       Then you start to feel hatred but really you have to blame self,                                                                                                 Cause you allowed everything to happen to in this game, when the whole time you was the ref,                                                                                           So when the hatred stops and the reality settles in,                                                                                                                                               Remember that everything that happen to you; you invited it in