WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE DIE

I have found that over the years, the biggest block to connecting to the world of the spirits, is fear or confusion over what happens when we die! This fear may be subconscious, in that we never really realized that we had it. Or we may have confused or mixed feelings about the after life, both in terms of what it means and how our loved ones are experiencing it. We may even be unsure if the after life exists at all, but simply hope that it does and that it`s a happy place!

Some people visit mediums in the hope of finding out, one way or another, if the after life exists. They hope to hear messages from their loved ones that demonstrate beyond doubt that the medium is in touch with a loved one in spirit. I believe that when we seek proof, this can act as a block to contacting the spirit world. We have to contact the spirits with belief, and then they will be able to show us the proof. If we approach the spirits with skepticism and doubt, it is much harder for them to create a clear channel for the medium

BELIEVING IN THE AFTER LIFE!

1. Do you believe in the after life? It`s ok to have your doubts, but if you have strong doubts, these will block your ability to connect with your loved ones. Believing, on some level, that there is somewhere that we go after we die, is crucial, if you are to get in touch with the spirit world. If you have doubts about the after life, what are they? and where do they come from? Are your family and friends believers? Or is the after life something that they think is silly? Do you feel that you need proof before you are able to believe? If you`re not entirely convinced about life after death, you need to talk through your doubts and how beneficial it is to believe, and the real reasons behind your doubts.
2. WE HAVE TO USE OUR FAITH AND LISTEN TO WHAT OUR HEARTS TELL US TO BE TRUE!
3. First and foremost, believing in the after life is a great comfort to almost everybody. It reassures us all that love never dies, it merely changes form. Believing in the spirit world helps us to come to terms with the empty space in our lives that`s left behind when a loved one departs this life, and to a certain extent it helps us fill up that empty space and ease our suffering, by utilizing all our positive energy.
4. I firmly believe in the after life because I have been lucky enough to have had proof of my own. That proof was given to me by my son Andrew whom we lost to cancer at the age of 31 in 2009. He has been able to come through to me several times, because not only have I always believed, but I am able to give others proof, because of my ability to receive visions and information, although it doesn`t always come through for me when I want it to, especially when I`m pressured by others. I practice meditation for that simple reason and I find that it helps me to open that special channel through the relaxation that meditation gives you.
5. It has been proven that believing in the after life helps the living to cope emotionally with death, and it really does help the families of the lost, to heal themselves. We all have our doubts because we`re all afraid. We`re afraid of looking or sounding silly, afraid of being ridiculed in front of others, and we`re also afraid of wasting our time on something that isn`t real to other people. I`ve found that none of these fears are worth giving the time of day to, because we all have the right to think for ourselves.
6. In the world that we live in today, we place a great emphasis on science and the proof that science gives us! If we are able to measure and prove something, then we can accept it as real. If we cannot, then we have a tendency to dismiss it. Until of course the time comes when we have the tools to measure it. Then even the doubters will become believers! After all is said and done, man used to think the world was flat! until we had proof that it is in fact round!
7. We live in an age where we still cannot measure psychic energy and intuition, or spiritual vibrations, but I believe that one day, that will all change! But right now, we have to use our faith and listen to what our heart tells us to be true. If you turn off all other distractions, what does your heart or inner light tell you of where your loved ones are now? Do you feel that they have simply gone out of existence? Or do you feel that on some level that they are still with you? I believe that most of us know that our loved ones are still with us, and that their loving energy still surrounds all of us, even though their bodies have gone. We all just have to believe in it, in order to allow ourselves to receive their energy through that simple belief in the after life.
8. It`s ok to have doubts. You wouldn`t be human if you didn`t! But when it comes to connecting with the spirit world, just let go of your need for proof! Ignore anyone who says it`s silly to believe in life after death. When you are trying to contact the spirit world because you`re just looking for proof, your vibrations and energy are all wrong! You are bringing to the fore, the heavy energy of logic and reason. It`s far better for you to focus on the positive feelings that you have about the after life. We all have them, even all those people who doubt the most that the spirit world exists. Think about the times when you have felt a connection to the spirit world. When you experienced that `gut feeling` or the feeling that there was an energy around you that wasn`t of this world! Focus on believing in the after life, not disbelieving, then you will be able to open yourself up to the world of the spirits.
9. I believe that the after life isn`t a place that anyone goes to alone, when we die, and that our loved ones always come and collect us. When we exist in the after life, we are surrounded by the spirits of departed loved ones and much, much more besides. Nobody need be afraid of dying, or that their loved ones are in a bad place. I believe that the after life is a place of community, companionship and love....G xx