Not Guilty as Charged

Its difficult to ascertain someone's experience,  as in their head they feel violated but the alleged perpetrator  looked in the direction coincidentally...
for instance I could be staring into what space and thinking about somthing unremarkable as somone naked walks past, I might not even notice, unless it was pointed out 
one instance I wouldn't consider it stalking, but if it happened again...or if the person was "waiting" to see them..and only they know that...well. that's stalking!
but the alleged in this case did see them and described them as posing...so he was technically in the wrong but I wouldn't think of it as purposeful 
it's so difficult make a judgement from a look
very thought provoking 
Lorna xxx