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8 of the many relationship keys, Each one unlocking each others needs.

relationship keys

8 of the many relationship keys,
Each one unlocking each others needs.

FRIENDSHIP is where all good relationships start,
Finding out about each other.
That want and need to know each others different pasts.
Your friends and even your best friends are just friends it’s true.
But a pair of lovers bonds,
Even if new.
Are built on the foundations of being the ultimate of best friends.
Making sure your love and FRIENDSHIP never ends.

Never should either clip each others wings,
Just as you’re in a relationship,
Doesn’t mean you can’t have the FREEDOM to spread out taaaAaqhose things.
If space is needed,
It may just be the answer to everything. 
But never stop anyone’s FREEDOM,
Or your relationship will be on the edge,
Like a ticking time bomb!
Teetering, 
Tottering,
 tick click boom!
So give the one you love free reign,
Give them their FREEDOM!

Honesty is integral as it ties your bond forever tighter,
Be HONEST from the start and throughout.
Dont sneak out and lie as to where you’ve been,
As that’s not being HONEST,
You know what I mean.
If you do that,
You’ll never leave a single seed of doubt,
If you do that,
Your relationship will last and not filter out.
Just be Honest and true to yourself, 
As dishonesty is definitely one path,
I don’t  choose myself.

Always be there by your partners side.
Showing LOYALTY and give it with pride.
Never drift or get led astride.
Don’t ever think for a minute LOYALTY,
 can just be pushed to the side.
LOYALTY has to be their from word go,
If no LOYALTY  is there,
Then I’m afraid I’d have to decline,
I would have to say no....

Always TRUST in each other,
Right through to the core.
TRUST in each other,
Do this,
And your love and relationship will forever last.
TRUST in my eyes,
 is another definite must.
Without TRUST,
Is the other just in it for sex and lust?
Are they out cheating?
It is one of a relationships survival,
And that’s simply TRUST....

It’s all about being UNDERSTANDING.
UNDERSTANDING of each others lives.
UNDERSTANDING and accepting each others past.
UNDERSTANDING  their present.
Understand each other and what you each do.
Understand there’s 2 in the relationship,
Understand each others beliefs and views,
Irrespective of whatever it is,
Just do this from the start,
Otherwise you’ll see it slowly go,
 and just like that,
Your relationship will break and start,
 to fall apart....

So 7th on this list is COMUNICATION ,
Always keep this up,
Save the arguments.
Save the confusion.
How do you know what each wants from one and other without causing,
Everlasting destruction.
Don’t just talk yourself,
Let your partner give their side of common COMMUNICATION!
Talk and listen to each other,
Communicate Or see your relationship start dissipating!

Last but not least,
It’s  LOVE that controls the inner beast.
Its LOVE that entwines each others hearts
It’s LOVE we all dream of having till our day of reckoning,
Till the day from this life we part.
As without it,
What is life without LOVE?
A life with only half a heart?
Some are happy like this.
For me,
I know,
I would hate to not LOVE and be loved.
As there is nothing quite like sharing LOVE with someone,
Someone you hold beloved!

Without these 8 important things,
A relationship will never be able to spread out its’,
Once clipped,
now unclipped wings!
If your relationship holds all of these,
Then I say to you that for your hearts sake,
you must proceed!
xxxxx

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Katina Woodruff...

I liked how you mention the eight keys in the beginning.

Favorite part: 

Never should either clip each others wings,
Just as you’re in a relationship,
Doesn’t mean you can’t have the FREEDOM to spread out taaaAaqhose things.

I wasn't sure about the word, "taaaAaqhose" or was it a sound being made? 

It was a little long for me, but great advice throughout. I liked how you divided each of the eight elements into stanzas. I think adding step one or number one at the top may be something to consider. 

Good job 

Happy Holidays from Newark, Ohio 
 

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james bevan

thank you for your lovely comments. and will add a beginning like that so thank you for that also.... 'taaaAaqhose' was meant to say 'to spread out those feathered things,
letting eachother do,
within the limits of your relationship,
pretty much everything and anything!' I was on a lot of heavy pain meds at the time so didn't proof read it as could hardly see my phone screen. your comments have been gratefully received so thank you,
james

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Katina Woodruff...

I wrote a really long poem once after being sedated after a procedure on my back. It was the best poem I ever came up with.

Great work here. You offered some fantastic relationship advice. 

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