I Found You When I Found Me

Discarded myself in search of a mate
Disregarding anything that was nate
And plunged head long into what was needed
With no regards for the me who pleaded
I found many flowers who looked for growth
Turns out flowers need soil and water both 
What good is a flower without water

Discarded all things in search of nate
Disregarding anything and a mate
And  I plunged head long into my needing
With no regards for desire's pleading
I found my self when I found my own growth 
Turns out I too need soil and water both
What good is the stem without it's water