Life & Love

Today's topic... Life? Love? I think either way u look at it you can't have one without the other... Because to find happiness in life you must love in turn love gives u happiness... So why the different titles? Now don't get me wrong I'm not trying to say u have to love to be happy but let's all be honest the happiness you feel by yourself is not comparable to the happiness that you feel with somebody else... I dunno why it's engraved in our mind and hearts to search for something that most people unfortunately never get to experience... I might go as far as saying those people are fortunate... Cuz if You've never loved then you've never lost... And if you have loved and lost then u know that all too familiar feeling of emptiness... Im no expert on the subject matter but I do know meeting someone only takes a few seconds... But if ur fortunate or unfortunate to fall in love with that person it takes a lifetime to forget them.. See there it is again life and love... I dunno why those two have to go together but that's just how it is... Let's sum this up just so I know your following... Your life goal is to fall in love meaning u search for that one person who shines above all the others... You following? Like i said I'm no expert on the matter but I do know love is never experienced the same... So is it due to a chemical imbalance in the brain or is the heart to blame? Because like I said before it takes seconds to say hello and forever to say goodbye... So is it my fault or yours that I never will experience that love the same? Im no expert on the subject matter but I do know trying to forget someone that u loved is like trying to remember someone that you never knew... You could not see that person for years and it only takes something as small as a fragrance flowing in the wind... Or a simple verse to bring back feelings that u thought were gone... Now this is where it gets complicated... If you can never forget someone how do u fall for another? The answer in my opinion is simple.. love is  always experienced differently.. So is that in turn giving u justifiable reason to love another? Or is that simply life showing you that you have to find a lover? Damn there it is again life and love... They do this freaky foreplay dance with your heart and your mind!! Let's take a second to catch up so I know your still with me... Love... Life... Eternal partners in crime that's established... Also you can't forget someone you loved BUT you are expected to fall in love again... Now believe me I'm no expert on the subject matter but I do know that love has three children... Jealousy, neglect, and resentment.. U have to adopt and embrace these bastards... You have to accept the fact that they run around breaking shit faster than you can clean it up... You have to eternally deal with the everlasting scar that they leave on your heart... U know that weight on your chest that makes you wanna quit before you start... That's the feeling of  love tearing your life apart... Well if I'll be dammed there it is again life and love... I don't think society will ever get this riddle figured out but I'm gonna die trying, because any information that is worth anything is gonna take some prying... So u ask me if I'm fucked from the start why am I even trying cuz if you don't its your heart and souls destines that your denying...