what causes this separation? is there truly no desire? is it a resentment, caused by what?
perhaps its a "language" barrier, how we communicate love, and how its received? some like gifts, others quality time, still some receive it physically! some may communicate it as words of encouragement and affirmation, while others receive it in acts of service!
Im not trying to be a psychologist or pretend I have all, or a single, answer! I sail in the same boat, looking for land every minute of the day! so I sympathize, with watery eyes, caus this is real!
stephen how did you know this is very real about a relationship of mine and I couldn't say what happened you are a gentleman are you snapped up yet you sound like a catch to me x
i married for the first time at 45 just over a year and a half ago my midlife crisis lol i love him but it is difficult both set in our ways ha ha sounds like a good relationship you have to me they all have ups and downs x
we married young, she was just out of highschool! had two awesome kids right away so it was challenging! I always wanted to settle down, find that comfortable place in life, where someone else shares the same views. its been quite unsettled of recent! not a comfy place!
Lol!!! Another great observational little Haiku!! I am sure you speak for the thousands ha ha!! Have a wonderful Christmas Susan, and a great time at New Year! All the best to you and your family :)
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hmm! somber piece here!
what causes this separation? is there truly no desire? is it a resentment, caused by what?
perhaps its a "language" barrier, how we communicate love, and how its received? some like gifts, others quality time, still some receive it physically! some may communicate it as words of encouragement and affirmation, while others receive it in acts of service!
Im not trying to be a psychologist or pretend I have all, or a single, answer! I sail in the same boat, looking for land every minute of the day! so I sympathize, with watery eyes, caus this is real!
susan I truly wish you the best!
thanks for sharing
stephen how did you know this is very real about a relationship of mine and I couldn't say what happened you are a gentleman are you snapped up yet you sound like a catch to me x
ive been married fourteen years! im proud of struggles weve overcome but shamed by problems that persist!
its difficult! to have two people come together in marriage takes a lot of humble experiences! no room for selfishness!
but we prevail, endure, persevere!
we could write books on this matter! :)
again I wish you the best! always enjoy your work!
i married for the first time at 45 just over a year and a half ago my midlife crisis lol i love him but it is difficult both set in our ways ha ha sounds like a good relationship you have to me they all have ups and downs x
indeed!
we married young, she was just out of highschool! had two awesome kids right away so it was challenging! I always wanted to settle down, find that comfortable place in life, where someone else shares the same views. its been quite unsettled of recent! not a comfy place!
well sounds to me like a relationship that can and is worth working on wish the both of ye the best of everything x
thanks susan
I wish you both the very best as well!
Lol!!! Another great observational little Haiku!! I am sure you speak for the thousands ha ha!! Have a wonderful Christmas Susan, and a great time at New Year! All the best to you and your family :)
ah thanks Rachel have the bestest of christmases and an even better new year from me and mine to you and yours Nollaig shona Duit sláinte x