Mae West said it best

Whether you be a sinner or saint,
Or even if you're just odd
Please never have a qualm
Nor show any alarm
Take it all on with a smile and a nod.

And whether a warrior or even a poet
Try to keep yourself a bit quaint,
For just being tough
Will not be enough
No matter how classic your feint.

If you're mostly domestic, then go a bit feral
Either way your goose will get cooked,
To come out unscathed, be bold and be brave
Better looked over than just overlooked