#RAPE CULTURE

It's hard to believe that your wishes are more important than mine

That your desire over compensates mine

That when I said NO it didn't make a difference to you

Because in your mind I wanted it, I was asking for it, I flirted with you all night

So now I deserve this

I deserve to be treated like I am less then human

An Object

How many times do I have to say NO for it to mean yes?

I never wanted this and it pains me to have to write about this 

This subject again and again and again

How many times must I write about it before it stops

Before my voice is heard 

Listen to me, Hear my words, Look at my body language 

NO means NO

I don’t want to be in your bed 

I don’t want you. 

I'm not friend zoning you. I'm just not interested. 

I'm allowed, as a woman of the 21st century, to make my own decisions.

Yes you heard me clearly

Make my own decisions. 

If I say that I don't want sex. It means that I don't want sex. 

It doesn't mean 

that if you pester, nudge and attempt to convince me that I will change my mind. 

I don't want to sleep with you now, in the next few minutes or hours or years! This is my

choice as a Woman 

and as a Man 

It should be YOUR choice to listen.