Who's The Victim ?

Is it you?
The one that is gone 
the one that lost life 
For you are no longer here
disappeared from this earth 
A true place of sin 
Hell on earth especially now 
Are you the victim?
for the inevitable took place 
You are no longer here 
you are heavily missed 
Are you the victim?
Or is it all of us ?
We are still here 
we still have life 
We havent disappeared 
from this sin filled earth 
We lost you and we are forced alone, without you 
Are we the victim ?
Or are we just being selfish?
We know you are in a better place , regardless ones faith, we know it cant be worse than here 
You no longer have pain, you no longer have fears, you no longer are living in a sin filled world 
Are you the victim ?
Or is it us ?
Can you still see me, wherever you are? If so can you believe me, when i say " when i lost you, i lost who i was" and if so, does it kill you, like the loss of you did my spirits and if so is my reaction causing you to be the victim from the sorrow you see in my eyes? 
Are you the victim? 
Or is it us, the ones that love you and hate that you're gone?