No Fear
In transition, life can be a challenge, beyond whatever was imagined. Despite pitfalls envisaged, or actual set-back, you have no choice but to continue. Once having decided which road to take. In which direction you move, after encountering a " fork " in the journey. Life, defines itself by choice, but, also by the fact you can not go back in time, to change any thing ! You, live in the moment, really. You, also live in a constant state of decision-making. Every " twist and turn " you represent defines a scenario, or scenarios, of where you travel. Though, " fate " also plays its hand. You, truly, know change is ever-present. With the realization you are never in full control of destiny. Other elements come in to play.
Now. This makes your " choice " of partner crucial, but, with the knowledge, fate, as described by historical precedents, puts only a certain number of options in front of you ( forks in the road ). You, therefore, have to accept the possibility of numerous " soulmates " present, potentially. And, BOREDOM. Given, " a change, is as good as a break " ! Interest, is interest !
You, can tell, the partner you have, at any one time is vital to your well-being, in the short-term, and, certainly, the long " GAME " !! Talk about pressure. The partner you choose, then, best defines how " TIME, AND TIDE " treat you. As well as your " practical " use of experiences, within this life, and probably before ! You, have to negotiate a deal between REALITY, and, over-blown optimism based on " dream " DATES ( throughout, the " whole " of the journey, in fact ). We, really, understand this. All of us. But, tend not to put the situation into words. Possibly, through " fear ".... of threatening hammer-blows ! In terms of, JUST QUALITY, hopefully !!
Love, then, has an amazing effect on outcomes of decision, but also, guides you in the moment, to take a certain ROAD, based on " wishful " creations. You, therefore, have to make some overall plan of what you want. Out of life. And, from the partner you choose. To better your position, throughout, the journey (of, extreme variation, clearly ).
JUDGEMENT is essential, within your criteria of need, and, " forged " determining factors, created by successful " relationships " of the past. Who wants to live with " second-best " ? HOPES AND DREAMS, are summed up in an " on-going " constant process of choices being made, apart from the " instance " gratifying appraisal ! There, must be the long view, and, short-term benefits assessed, at the same time.
There is a " hell of a lot, going on " at any one time.
Rather disconcerting to think ?
HOW " GOOD " ARE YOUR LIFE-SKILLS ?
