A Victims Environment

Make goals to watch them fall apart, triple stitch the seams next time and maybe then they will hold, wishful thinking I suppose however better than being pessimistic, or am I just setting myself up for inevitable failure? What mindset is the most realistic to obtain? Lately the glass appears to be half empty, lately life seems to be treating me unfairly, regardless my changes, everything and everyone else around me seems to be the exact same.....dangerous!