All the hurt

If falling in love is worth the risk of getting hurt. Does that mean you have to learn to cope with disappointment. If losing someone you love is worth all the happy years you shared. Does that mean your not a victim of grief. Hurt has many forms and faces, many events and traces. Some hurt never leaves. Sometimes hurting others is the best thing to do if you don't want to waste their good years cause you have fallen out of love with that person. We all have been hurt, emotionally, physically, spirituality damage is always done by hurt. Healing is not possible for some where the scars are too deep. Healing is powerful if you are working on it, to get better. Try not to prevent hurt, prevent harm. Try not to hurt or harm all the ones you call dear. Hate hurt not being able to help, hate being hurt crushed by others words or actions. Does that mean that you have to hate the person who hurt you, possibly not. Or maybe so.